WHAT MAKES WOMEN SIGH?
At Ibizatops we intend to give you some ideas and for that we have interviewed Fiamma, a sex coach who knows these topics in depth.
We asked her a few questions that will surely awaken desires in you and help you know what is What really turns a woman on, what makes them sigh.
Today the day is cold and sunny. Fiamma is waiting for us at her Sexconsul, as he likes to call her. I must admit that I am a little nervous, since I barely know our interviewee today. I am a humble follower of her publications and content, I have contacted her to have a face-to-face chat and dive into the depths of a topic that interests us, a lot.
Fiamma welcomes me with a giant and charming smile, she is a very imposing woman, her elegant movements and striking clothing are a hypnotizing combo for anyone.
We entered an office with very particular furniture, large sofas with curved shapes and other individual ones with special designs to give and receive pleasure. A really beautiful painting covers the main wall.
A Sun man and a Moon woman intertwine and mingle, naked in a dance for the stars.
The nerves of the moments before arriving dissipated when I walked through the door and met this charming girl.
What led you to dedicate yourself to Sexcoaching, Fiamma?
Since I was a teenager I have been interested in pleasure, sex, bodies, also souls and culture. One of the first questions I asked myself was: Why do I feel guilty or ashamed when masturbating? And it is the same one that most of my patients start with to this day. This is just one of the barriers we put up when it comes to enjoying something so natural and necessary. The search to break those cultural limitations and the desire to help people connect with sex to be able to enjoy it like I do. That's what got me to where I am today.
Do you have more questions from women or men? What is the general reason that leads them to visit you?
Women come most of the time interested in how to use self-satisfying toys or pleasurable and careful ways to have anal sex.
Men are more interested in becoming experts when it comes to giving pleasure to their lovers.
I have consultations from lovely people of all genders and ages, and practically the same, my work is very interesting.
You have touched on a topic that interests us a lot (I say with a laugh). Could you give us a little more information about what are these tricks that anyone can use to become an expert?
To begin with, people are very mental and sensory, so there is a rule that applies to any case, conditions the environment, generates a special climate with music, lights and appropriate clothing. Success is in the details.
Second, let yourself go and connect with the moment. In all cases, the confidence you have in yourself will be what defines the situation, you have to eat the character and maintain it until the orgasm ends, at least.
Third, go slowly, take the time each caress, each gesture deserves.
Another important point is to pay attention to what causes desire and interest in your partner, because many times they ask me: How do I know what he or she likes? Open your girl's eyes and test how she responds to different stimuli.
Maybe she doesn't even know exactly what moves her, the idea would be to be able to touch the bug of desire that we all carry inside her, and if you manage to discover it, I assure you that that woman will remember you forever.
The themes always help to disengage and connect with the deepest things through a game, I recommend them, I love them.
What are the most used themes to generate these disinhibition games, could you recommend some?
Of course, I love doing it, that's what I dedicate myself to! (she says between laughs). First of all, and taking into account everything I just told you, with even a minimal idea of the preferences of our gaming partner, we are going to create the right environment.
Option one would be the firefighter and police costumes, a classic that will never die. Then you put on the suit, adjust the lighting and the music, in this case I recommend a sexy rock and roll, you will wait for your partner dressed like that and you will take it. by surprise, for example when arriving from work. Remember that the character must be interpreted from the second you cross the door and maintained until the climax of orgasm, never before or the balloon of imagination and disinhibition will burst.
Security, firmness and authority will be the keys to playing this role well. Accessories such as handcuffs, sticks and guns (toy guns please) will be key to getting off the cliff in the best way.
Pats, pats on the butt, you know those little gestures that drive us crazy.
Second option, for romantics, the convinations can be: a hot bath, rose petals, blues music in the background. In this case the suit will be a robe, and the most important thing will be the softness of the touch, and the words in the ear. You will slowly remove his clothes, you will guide him towards that hot and foamy bath that you already have prepared, you will wash his body with gentleness and dedication. You will take him to bed wrapped in a towel and practice oral sex with the effort and passion it deserves.
Here the keys will be calm, confidence and sweetness, the elements: low lights, candles, rose petals, a delicious bottle of wine and robes.
Third, for the dominant. A more hardcore version, here what we will seek is to awaken desire through "submitting" and being the prey of these women who turn on when they are the ones directing the show, we are going to give them what they want. We wait in bed and already tied up, the music will be heavy metal and the accessories will be lots of latex, whips, chains, nipple shields. Our eyes are blindfolded, everything is defined by the level of passion that we put into the character we are playing, and do not forget that it is a game, where pleasure always wins.
In fourth place I would put "the doctor", with this theme we try to cure the other person's ailments, it is a loving fantasy, it shows a lot of affection, especially for solving fights and removing anger (he says with a laugh).
A white doctor's coat that covers your naked body, I recommend always having some sex toys as tools, so you can do a complete examination of the patient, the music should be subtle and low, in this case the lights will be on, and your girl will surely He will also be when he sees you dressed like this.
I reserve fifth place for those who have a gaming partner who likes to be treated with a certain severity, normally these are the most authoritarian people in real life and what turns them on is feeling that contrast in sex, which dominate them. Very well we will give them what they ask for. Background music, low lights, some candles, wrist cuffs to tie your hands and feet, there are very cute ones with soft skin inside. We will use a whip and a feather and always in a delicate and careful way although without going out of character, we will give him a few lessons.
I think those five are the ones that tend to fit the most.
Thank you very much Fiammma, your explanation has raised my temperature to a hundred... my readers will be amazed. How much can maintaining these types of practices benefit a couple's relationship?
Keeping the flame of passion alive is too important and especially in these times where no one stays with anyone out of "habit", that is, you have to work at it, sex represents the total union of souls, this part of life It is a game that we adults must play to stay healthy and happy.
Apart from how gratifying it is to court a person and also allow them to court us. Only those who do not feel valuable and self-confident enough are capable of living without being interested in this matter.
The answer is: infinitely, there are no limits to the success and happiness that a couple can achieve by maintaining practices that encourage sexual connection, it will undoubtedly lead you to take an evolutionary leap as people and in all aspects of life.
At first it can be uncomfortable and embarrassing, trust with your partner is what allows you to break that barrier and once you pass that threshold, all that follows is fun and pleasure.
Is it true that there are some aphrodisiac foods and drinks?
Yes it's correct. The best aphrodisiac is a healthy life, playing sports and trying not to take your problems to bed. There are some practices like Kinky Sex, which is basically about putting aside the usual limitations such as our physique or mood and dedicating ourselves to playing like a child plays, without caring about anything other than enjoyment, that would be the fundamental thing. In addition, there are also scientific studies that demonstrate and confirm that having a glass of wine or eating cocoa favors moisturization and female libido.
For men and their testosterone, nutmeg, avocado and seafood are recommended.
Sploshing can also be extremely aphrodisiac and pleasurable.
What is "Sploshing" based on? Do you recommend it?
Sploshing is the art of mixing two of life's greatest pleasures: eating and having sex at the same time. Strawberries, honey, cream, wine, chocolate are used. The idea is to dare to be creative with these delicacies and eat them directly on your partner's skin. Ice cream can be very interesting, anything that has a different temperature and texture to our body will cause a new and very erotic sensation. It's one of my favorite games.
If you do it,you should always keep in mind that food or drinks cannot touch intimate areas where the skin is most sensitive.
Finally, do you think that age is an important factor when it comes to carrying out these increasingly common sexual practices in society?
It is when we talk about very young people, I always recommend experimenting from the age of 18 and not before, since we are not mature enough for it. But from then on anyone can start and at any time in life, even if you are over 60 years old, you just need a little daring and trust with whom we will share it.
Many thanks to Fiamma for opening up to us and providing us with such valuable information.
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